HOW DO YOU TALK ABOUT THE THINGS YOU’RE MOST AFRAID TO SHARE? WHEN IS IT APPROPRIATE TO HOLD BACK?

WHAT WAS THE FIRST THING YOU FELT WHEN YOU HEARD YOUR CANCER DIAGNOSIS?

HOW TO BALANCE NEED OF SELF VS. MUTUAL AID AND COMMUNITY FUNCTION. HOW TO JUGGLE BEING IN NEAR PROXIMITY TO SOMEONE/SOCIETY WITH SUICIDAL TENDENCIES AND TAKING CARE/RESPONSIBILITY FOR THAT WITHOUT GOING DOWN WITH THE SHIP.

DO YOU LIVE WITHOUT COMPROMISING YOURSELF OR SELVES IN ANY WAY? DO YOU HAVE MORE TO SHARE WITH US ON THIS?

WHAT PREVENTS YOU FROM DANCING?

WHAT’S SOMETHING THAT SCARES YOU THAT YOU’VE NEVER SAID OUT LOUD BEFORE?

DEAR SAM, I AM WONDERING IN WHAT SENSE YOU CAN DECLARE YOURSELF “NOT FEMALE” IF THAT IS WHAT YOU MEAN BY GOING BY THEY/SHE, RATHER THAN JUST “SHE”. WHAT IS IT THAT IS LOOKED FOR THAT IS NOT CONTAINED IN BOTH BEING AND BEING REFERRED TO AS A “SHE”? THANKS.

DO YOU REMEMBER YOUR EARLIEST EXPERIENCE OF PLEASURE? WHAT SPARKED IT, AND WHERE DOES IT EXIST IN YOUR BODY NOW?

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT WHEN YOU ARE LOOKING STRAIGHT AT SOMEONE WHO HAS MISTREATED YOU?

DID YOU HAVE AN EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE MOTHER? HOW HAS YOUR ANSWER TO THIS QUESTION AFFECTED YOUR OWN ABILITY TO MOTHER?